Plan A: stepping out of the confining religion by connecting to the other world and living the free life that leads to sexual freedom, liberation and not necessary sexual slavery. Finding out that life has way more to offer and connecting to another world in a lot of ways to understand problems and real solutions better.
Plan B: keeping the headscarf, staying respected and never really able to make the connection, being discriminated both ways, either through skin tone, ethnicity, heritage, headscarf, religion. Being confined yet always strict and a disciplinarian. Safety in mind, not so much religious arrogance. IF safety is in place, headscarf is really not needed, it is a scarf against the weather then.
The combination solution: working in a sexual field, yet with the right moral standards, with the understanding of free will and safety, without the connection of the nonsense barbaric cultures and religions that push the woman into sexual slavery (Middle East, Indian, some East Europe) where there is actually not a real mutual sexual attraction and the woman is seen as a part of an attribute that is a slave.
The sexual attraction so far I've seen exists out of the following:
-Indian - Western
-Chinese - Western
-Chinese - Indian
-East European - Indian
-East European - Chinese
-East European - Western
-Western - African/Middle East
-Chinese - African/Middle East
-Indian - African
-Indian - Latin American
-Chinese - Latin American
-Western - Latin American
-Western - Western, is it?
-Middle East - Middle East, is it? How to be a narcissist? Where is the salaam to the world if a woman is supposed to be with a Middle East person and not someone from another culture, because they are your possession and the women from other cultures are not allowed to marry your Middle Eastern Guy?
I as a highly educated Indian mixed person, don't feel attracted at all to the behaviour and mechanism of Indian nor Middle Eastern people, and I cannot handle the double standard of the Western society, yet I see the logic, because I do look different, and they only see the outside.
Anyway, what is in a Slave? IN a Slave is a Goddess. That is the weird transition people cannot seem to grasp, because that is what the religion is making in the end.
Can other religious women understand the poetry of multiple lovers vs once in a lifetime person you live with, even if it is not even the person you chose to be with, because your first crush actually happened in childhood on a teacher?